The Swan Map · Dallas · 6 rooms

Where to go outin Dallas.

The most formally dressed city in this book, and the one where effort is noticed and rewarded. It drinks at six and eats at seven-thirty.

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Hotel bar · Turtle Creek / Oak Lawn

The Mansion Bar, Rosewood Mansion on Turtle Creek

A 1920s house turned hotel, and the most established drinks room in Dallas — where the city's old families and its visiting executives both end up at six.

When
mardi, mercredi, jeudi · 5.30 – 7.30pm
The check
$30 to $70 for a drink or two, plus valet.
Getting in
Walk in

Who is there
The closest thing Dallas has to an establishment room. Old Dallas families, the energy business, and a constant supply of executives staying upstairs who know nobody in town.

What to wear
Dallas dresses up, and underdressing is the error here rather than overdressing — the reverse of Los Angeles. A proper dress or a tailored trouser and silk shirt, a heel, hair done. This is a city that notices effort and rewards it.

How to walk in
The bar, early, before the dining room seats. The hotel guests are the opening: they are in Dallas for two days, they are at the bar because they have nobody to eat with, and they will talk to anyone who speaks first.

At the bar, to someone alone with a laptop bag at their feet.

“First night or last night?”

It is a direct question and this city likes direct. Either answer opens: a first night wants a recommendation, a last night wants to tell you how the week went.

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In The Club

5 more in Dallas, where the people who decide cross paths

Memberships, invitations, rooms where the hour matters more than the address — fewer people, and more of the ones who count. You do not walk into these by accident. For each one, the same thing as above: the night, the hour, what to wear, and the first sentence.

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    Northwest Dallas

  • Galleries

    Downtown — Arts District

  • Golf

    North Dallas / Plano / Irving

  • Professional rooms

    Uptown / Downtown

  • Racetrack

    Grand Prairie

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